A few days ago I received a (snail) mail from my Mom in Toronto containing a small booklet, a letter, and copies of two of the articles I wrote more than two years ago. She said she was sorting out old files and came across some of my “Dear Reader” articles and found some of the pages were boldly speaking to her. So she sends back to me a copy so I could hear what it is saying to her loudly.
Upon reading the two articles I wrote, it felt like I was struck by lightning twice. Sometimes, we give advises or encouragements and yet, here we are not taking our own. I felt that I have been much occupied that I have set aside one of the most important tasks I have been practicing for a long time. It’s her way of reminding me something I have been neglecting.
What she does really is encourage others in many ways and sending out my articles to someone in need is one of them. Now it's time I receive my own dose of encouragement. This is something I really admired about my mother, aside from her being most understanding. She keeps us in her thoughts most of the time. She knows if there is something bothering us even if we do not give her a single hint at all. She can read our movements, responses, and probably even our minds! She even used to tell us she’s got sixth sense - yeah, right Mom! But that’s what makes her a super Mom! So there goes the truth in the saying, "Mothers know best!" I know not all moms are like her and each moms are gifted in many different ways. I am really blessed to have her.
Upon reading the two articles I wrote, it felt like I was struck by lightning twice. Sometimes, we give advises or encouragements and yet, here we are not taking our own. I felt that I have been much occupied that I have set aside one of the most important tasks I have been practicing for a long time. It’s her way of reminding me something I have been neglecting.
What she does really is encourage others in many ways and sending out my articles to someone in need is one of them. Now it's time I receive my own dose of encouragement. This is something I really admired about my mother, aside from her being most understanding. She keeps us in her thoughts most of the time. She knows if there is something bothering us even if we do not give her a single hint at all. She can read our movements, responses, and probably even our minds! She even used to tell us she’s got sixth sense - yeah, right Mom! But that’s what makes her a super Mom! So there goes the truth in the saying, "Mothers know best!" I know not all moms are like her and each moms are gifted in many different ways. I am really blessed to have her.
My mother was never wrong and this message does speak to me loudly. Here is the first article I wrote in May 2005:
A time came when I was assigned to visit a factory in China with my colleague to see how they can set up our new product development for the coming Back-to-School season. Since it was my first visit to that factory, I was given the privilege to tour its large premises, along with my colleague.
We were shown the various departments and sections of the factory where large machines were making a great deal of noise. These machines feeds and cuts assorted sizes of polypropylene sheets where workers collect them to bring to the next stage of development. Other parts of the tour include the sample room, the dyeing section-where raw materials are mixed with dye stuffs; the die area, embossing, printing, lamination, trimming, folding, packing and the workers’ quarters.
After crossing 3 blocks of the compound, we were led to the back lot area housing nothing but huge generators and control panels. My colleague said, “Hmmm, there is nothing interesting here, nothing much happening. This place is not so important.” Then the guide smiled, “Yes, it seem nothing much happening here and nothing interesting to see. But this is the most important place of all. This is where the power is distributed to the entire factory. And when there is a power failure, the generator here runs and provides power supply to the entire factory.”
Now here is a lesson for all of us to that comment: In our Christian life, the place where we pray is our ‘power house’, a quiet place where we can be alone with God. There we do our quiet time where we can speak to God and reverently allow Him to speak to us as we meditate on His Word, the Bible.
Like the many areas of the factory, our lives also have sections that do various tasks. But all areas of our lives should begin from the ‘power house’. When we rise up in the morning, we switch on our ‘power’ through prayer. It is like a key that unlocks your day. At the end of the day before we retire, we do our quiet time and meditate on God’s Word, works like a lock before retiring at night. What if we fail? When we fail to pray and suddenly experience a storm in our life, we panic when our generator does not provide us power during blackouts. It is only then that we remember to say our prayers.
Remember this: If you want to know how to pray in the bad times, learn to pray in the good times!
In Matthew 6:6, Jesus taught the value of intimate fellowship with heaven, which can be attained only in the sacred solitude of our prayer closet. “But thou, when thou prayest, enter into thy closet, and when thou hast shut the door, pray to thy Father which is in secret; and thy Father which seeth in secret shall reward thee openly.” So why pray in secret? Praying alone in secret allows us to pour ourselves to God. We become intimate with Him. We have our personal encounter with Him. It is our quality time with Him. All these because we have a ‘Father and son’ relationship with God since we are His children. “For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God. For ye have not received the spirit of bondage again to fear; but ye have received the Spirit of adoption, whereby we cry, Abba, Father. The Spirit itself beareth witness with our spirit, that we are the children of God.” Romans 8:14-16. Jesus did not discouraged public prayer, but He did warn us against the evil of seeking attention by parading our piety before others. When we pray, it seems nothing much is happening. It seems unimportant that we pray without ceasing. But prayer does move mountains to those who have faith! It is one of the most important tasks a Christian must do. This is our communication with the heavenly Father.
When was the last time you shut the door on the distractions of life and poured out your heart before the heavenly Father?
In Matthew 6:6, Jesus taught the value of intimate fellowship with heaven, which can be attained only in the sacred solitude of our prayer closet. “But thou, when thou prayest, enter into thy closet, and when thou hast shut the door, pray to thy Father which is in secret; and thy Father which seeth in secret shall reward thee openly.” So why pray in secret? Praying alone in secret allows us to pour ourselves to God. We become intimate with Him. We have our personal encounter with Him. It is our quality time with Him. All these because we have a ‘Father and son’ relationship with God since we are His children. “For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God. For ye have not received the spirit of bondage again to fear; but ye have received the Spirit of adoption, whereby we cry, Abba, Father. The Spirit itself beareth witness with our spirit, that we are the children of God.” Romans 8:14-16. Jesus did not discouraged public prayer, but He did warn us against the evil of seeking attention by parading our piety before others. When we pray, it seems nothing much is happening. It seems unimportant that we pray without ceasing. But prayer does move mountains to those who have faith! It is one of the most important tasks a Christian must do. This is our communication with the heavenly Father.
When was the last time you shut the door on the distractions of life and poured out your heart before the heavenly Father?
Bible passage to read: Psalm 5:1-8
“KNEELING KEEPS YOU IN GOOD STANDING WITH GOD”
Thanks for reminding me of the power house. That was indeed the source of strength I relied on when I was tending to you in the hospital. It was also that power house that I called on when I needed the support of fellow Christians to pray for your healing and for God's provision.
ReplyDeleteNow a question comes. Does our prayer really matters at all, when at the end of the day it is God's will that prevails. Not at all times we can be aware of God's will. For instance, when a close family friend was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer, we were praying to God for her healing, the same way I prayed for yours. God heard our prayers for your healing but my friend died despite the prayers and pleadings not only by me but by so many others who know and love Christ. I never lost my faith in praying for that friend even at the last minute I was praying for God to heal her. Just 2 weeks ago, I visited another friend who was in critical condition at the Manila Adventist Hospital. He got perforated duodenum due to a gun shot wound he suffered 7 years ago. 12 hours after I visited him, he was gone. So, why do we have to pray for someone's healing at all? After all, isn't God all knowing? Do we need to bang on the doors of heaven just to let him know that a dear friend is suffering in pain and is in the brink of death? Does God need our prayers to be reminded of what He already knew? In the end, when our prayers were not answered according to our expectation, we rationalized that God has a purpose for not healing the one we were praying for. That it was time for a dear friend to come home to the loving arms of our Father. I hear these comforting words over and over during many funeral services that I went through. Are all these just rationalization for something we cannot explain? Isn't it God's will for us to live life more abundantly? That by His stripes we have been healed? Why do people who have given their lives to Christ still suffer slow death at a young age that drains not only the one dying but also the bereaved family?
We talk about prayer in our Bible studies and hear about the same during Sunday from the pulpit. But this is where the rubber hits the road. How does prayer really apply in life ... and in death?
Still in Christ,
Manny
Hi Manny,
ReplyDeleteThis is a challenging question. Hope my answer fits! Our prayers do matter at all. It shows that you have complete faith in God and you trust Him no matter what. We pray and God answers our prayers because we have a personal relationship with Him. We are His children and He is our Father. God did promised to answer all our prayers and even give us hope in many ways. And it is true that God said, "My thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways." (Isaiah 55:8); and He also said, "Ask and it shall be given you, seek and ye shall find...." (Matthew 7:7) among other promises from the Bible.
Does God's Word contradict itself? No. In the Bible says, God answers prayers. It's true. But it did not say all His answers will be "Yes" and will be in our favours. God will give YES, NO and WAIT for answers. We pray bec we are His children. And prayer is our way of communication with our Father. We are asking Him.... but the final word is His.
There are times that we assume the things we are asking for are the best. But in the eyes of God, it's not. So He may be giving us a respond that we do not want but it is for our own good. When God tells us to WAIT - He is teaching us patience among other things. He wants us to learn something (maybe bec we are stubborn or impatient) and make sure that you will remember and live it. When He gives us NO - He is giving us something better bec what we are asking for is not going to do us any good. Or perhaps, some people's prayers are not answered. Maybe because they do not have that personal relationship with Him. Or they are praying with wrong motives. But when God gives us YES for an answer, it is bec it aligns with His will and brings glory to His name.
To answer your question - You pray for my healing and it was granted, why the other one's healing of stage 4 cancer was not granted? The truth is, I really don't know the exact answer. But what I know is, God is not finished with me yet. While for the other patient, God's plans may have been already accomplished. Although it may be appearing to the loved ones as "NO", to that patient, who knows, it may have been her sweet "YES" from the Lord. We may still want her to live longer but God's plan is something else.
That is why God is called the Sovereign God, Almighty God... bec He is God. His ways are not our ways. God is also the author and finisher of our faith. He knows us right even before we were born. He knows exactly what is going to happen to us bec He created us.He is all-knowing.
So you ask me why we still need to pray and ask if He knows all? When we ask something from the Father, He already knows what we want, what we need, etc. However, the fact that we come to Him is what matters. It shows we are His children.
Prayer is our guidance applied in life. As we walk through life, we learn that God is there bec we commune with Him in prayer. We get to know Him and we spend our life walking with God in prayer, living our lives in prayer. In any facets of our lives, prayer applies in all corners of its foundation. The more prayerful one is, the stronger that foundation will be. So when death comes, one is comforted and assured that it is not a mere loss but a gain bec of God's promises (Philippians 1:21).
Death is part of our being humans. It is a punishment from the very beginning. Pain and suffering is part of our life. God did not promise our lives to be free from all these. But He promised that He will be there with us when we suffer so that we can experience and appreciate the sweetness of His love.
Jimmy
Hi Jimmy,
ReplyDeleteYou hit the nail on the head. Prayer requires faith just as our relationship with God requires faith. For God to answer our prayers 'Yes' or 'No' is not even relevant since God commanded us to pray for one another, and to pray without ceasing. He didn't say to expect an answer. But the Bible did say that God hears our prayers. And that is enough for me.
Thank you for providing more clarity in this.
Best regards,
Manny